Some thoughts on being social

For anyone looking to be more social (or moves to an island where they don't know anyone and has their husband gone).

1. Say yes to everything. You will have new experiences and meet new people.

2. Leil Lowndes's How to Talk to Anyone is a great book. I probably read this book 3 years ago and found it really interesting. I found that I already did many of the techniques the book discussed, but it also gave some other concrete examples of things to do and say while talking with people. It's great for people who have to network or need help making small talk.

3. Try Meetup. I'd heard of it before, but never used it before now. There are tons of groups for tons of different activities. It's a great way to meet people with common interests. I really think it is great for single people. I'm thankful that I met my spouse in college and I've always wondered how singles meet in adulthood rather than online dating or a bar. Well Meetup could be that answer...just don't be a creeper, not everyone is necessarily looking for romantic connection.

4. Get a dog. She will force you to get outside and get walking. Find a dog park where your dog likes to play and meet the other owners.

5. Take classes. See if there are classes at a gym or yoga studio. Check out the local community college for classes.